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About

Goddess Chrystal Ru

I didn't wake up one day knowing exactly who I was or where I was meant to be. Like many women, I spent years caught between strength and softness, desire and doubt, power and surrender. I battled with the parts of myself I tried to suppress- the one that society told me were "too much" or " not enough." But in that battle, I found my truth. I found Her-the Goddess in me. And now, I help women like you find yours.

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Becoming the Goddess in Control.

My journey into domination wasn't just about control-it was about reclaiming me.​ When I first stepped into this world, I thought I had to choose between being powerful and being loved, between taking up space and being loved, between taking up space and being accepted. But what I learned is that true power comes from embracing all of who you are, even the parts you don't always like.
 

There's beauty in your contradictions. There's freedom in understanding that you can be both fierce and feminine, dominant and nurturing, powerful and vulnerable. That's where your strength lies-in the balance.

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Your Journey Begins Here

 I created Goddess In Control because I know what it feels like to want more-to crave a deeper understanding of yourself, to step into your power without fear, and to finally live unapologetically. Whether you're here to embrace your dominance, explore new layers of yourself, or simply connect with other women who see and understand you, this space was made for you.​Through my mentorship, training, and Mistress Circle community, I guide women i discovering their own version of power - not by forcing them into a mold but by helping them break the ones they never fit into This is about you, your desires, your control, your life.

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Are You Ready to Step Into Your Power?

If you're feeling the pull, if something inside you is saying this is where I need to be, then I invite you to take the next step. Your story matters. Your journey is just beginning. And here, you are seen, understood, and welcomed.

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